Causing Change

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change! ~ Wayne Dyer. Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao

Change one person in the group.
Well, change yourself,
for even if you try you can't
change anybody else.
Or watch a group where one has changed.
The others cannot remain the same.
But it's more complex than that.
It can be the watcher who changes,
not a single one of the participants.
and still the group changes.
So, you're watching, not changing,
just observing and evaluating,
considering, and what you watch changes.
So, is it true you can only change yourself?
No. You change your attitude,
your observation, your analysis,
your mindset, and others change.
So, you can change others...
but really you can only change yourself...