Carrying the Load

There are no financial requirements to be a member of OA.

is recovery program is available to all who want to stop

eating compulsively, no matter how much or how little

money they may possess. ~ OA Press Kit

No matter how much or how little

money you have... It's the 7th Tradition
Fewer people know the other end of the rule.
Ten thousand a year, five to the genera fund of OA,
and five to a special fund. Rules dictate whose wills
can contain bequests to OA. The suggested donation
increased a few years ago from two to three dollars.
But none is required. Can you feel vested if you have nothing
for the basket week after week? Mohamed Ali said,
"Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth."
And service works as your contribution. If cash is slight,
look around, fill the gaps. Pay your way Help carry the load!

Organized Improv

it is a relief to walk into a meeting and hear the same comforting, familiar slogans from friends each week. However, I’ve come to love OA meetings for their unpredictability, as well as their structure. ~ Voices of Recovery (Kindle Locations 2601-2603).

The same words red over and over,
t; the extent we could quote major blocks
of the script. But then again at time for open shares
we open our mouths and we're shocked to hear
what is said, even that which we share!
But more often than not, those words are exactly
what needs to be heard, often by the person who
utters the words! A meeting is a fugue, in fact:
a contrapuntal composition in which
a short melody or phrase (the subject)
is introduced by one part and
successively taken up by others
and developed by interweaving the parts.
Welcome to recovery, welcome home!

She's Not Heavy, She's My sister

Life will take on new meaning. To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends— this is an experience you must not miss. We know you will not want to miss it. Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives. ~ Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition (Kindle Locations 1324-1326).

Service is the whole point:
Having had a spiritual awakening 
as the result of these Steps, 
we tried to carry this message 
to compulsive overeaters 
and to practice these principles 
in all our affairs. It's our destination,
our ultimate usefulness.
We arrive helpless, powerless,
stuck in unmanageable lives.
We take the steps thinking of ourselves,
our failings, our defects, people we harmed,
seeking to  identify with an extraneous power,
one we can trust with our lives, leaning to trust
that power with everything. And we reach the point
when we are amazed our lives work and suddenly
we're positioned to sponsor, to share our journey,
and realize, this is an experience you must not miss.We're home.

Fix It, Please

A childhood book, where parents sew on buttons, 
repair zippers, change a tire, repair a wagon, 
sew a doll's arm on, make a new chair leg,
doctor cuts or get a doctor for sick children,
We learn to trust parents and others who earn it,
and it doesn't stop at childhood. A sister's mother-in-law
once told her, "You Breedlove girls think your parents can do anything."
It wasn't true, though. I knew Daddy could do most things 
but not hulahoop, cast with stinkbait on the hook, remember names
or put my Timex watch back together. But we quoted often, 
"Fix it, please." Am I still doing that, as the eldest within the
third degree of consanguinity? Well, sometimes, yes. 
but now i try to make my requests, "God, grant me the serenity 
to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference."
And, "Not my will but yours be done."

Slippery Places

If you don't want to slip, stay away from slippery places ~ program saying

Where are you likely to blow your food plan?
All-you-can-eat buffets? Birthday parties?
church socials? Grandma's house? Restaurants
serving everyone who comes in chips
or fresh-from-the oven bread?
One place for me serves foods i can readily choose
but where I went in days gone by exclusively
for their signature ice cream desserts.
For some alcoholics bars may be verbotenAnd some places for us in OA,
but consider what the Big Book tells alcoholics:
So our rule is not to avoid a place where there is
drinking, if we have a legitimate reason for being
there. That includes bars, nightclubs, dances, 
recep­tions, weddings, even plain ordinary whoopee parties.I've been to a place described above as serving baskets of chips...
at a table filled with OA people without issue. Slippery places
may offer secure footing in places where we need to be.

Ask Me How

I can tell you every concept to loose weight
known to woman. Or man. I know,
because I tried darned near all of them!
There's the traditional dieting. Buy a magazine,
a book, find it online, just pick one.
Believe me, they all work. For somebody.
But not for the people who really need them.
They ... we ... stick to them completely,
obsessively, compulsively, perfectly
for a while. But the while may last an hour,
a day, a month, six months ... but it ends.

Sometimes it seems we've got it conquered.
but no. The IT we must conquer is us.
our insanity of trying virtually the same thing
over and over and then again. But if you admit
that insanity, that tired old pat, that powerlessness
within that proves we can't control food.
If we admit we're addicts and treat our addiction
like that's what it is...If we read recovery literature
from any addiction,  well, that's the answer. That's "how!"
Live the Twelve Steps, keep company with others who are!

My Inch

See to it that you do not refuse him who speaks. If they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, how much less will we, if we turn away from him who warns us from heaven? At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, "Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens." The words "once more" indicate the removing of what can be shaken – that is, created things – so that what cannot be shaken may remain. 

Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our "God is a consuming fire." (Hebrews 12:25-29 NIV)

"We realize we know only a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us." (Alcoholics Anonymous, page 164)

How often have I refused to listen?
How many times have I
known enough, deemed
my choices sufficient, smart?
I know less than a inch in the
multi light-year universe
of knowledge
and stand here, smug.
How often have I missed
the wisdom God
wanted me to have?
Am I listening today?

God, let it be.

This is from a draft of the next book, responding to Galatians and the Big Book

My Inch

See to it that you do not refuse him who speaks. If they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, how much less will we, if we turn away from him who warns us from heaven? At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, "Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens." The words "once more" indicate the removing of what can be shaken – that is, created things – so that what cannot be shaken may remain. 

Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our "God is a consuming fire." (Hebrews 12:25-29 NIV)

"We realize we know only a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us." (Alcoholics Anonymous, page 164)

How often have I refused to listen?
How many times have I
known enough, deemed
my choices sufficient, smart?
I know less than a inch in the
multi light-year universe
of knowledge
and stand here, smug.
How often have I missed
the wisdom God
wanted me to have?
Am I listening today?

God, let it be.

This is from a draft of the next book, responding to Galatians and the Big Book

Be Peaceful

“The first few times we make the choice to “be peaceful rather than right,” it feels like denial. But with practice it will become the preferred choice.”
― Karen Casey, Let Go Now: Embracing Detachment

Right is right and when I've got it nailed, I own it!
But could something else feel even better? Of course it can, It feels just like
the Second Tradition: For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority —
a loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience. 
Our leaders are but trusted servants; they do not govern.Leaders, usually the most experienced may know how other groups
resolved the issue we face, and the results, but aa peaceful resolution,
finding the group conscience, makes for loving groups,
for the betterment of recovery, individually and and collectively.

The Meaning of Abstinence

“The simple ability to eat and sleep normally and wake up glad you are alive, glad you abstained yesterday, and glad you have the privilege of abstaining today.” ~ Voices of Recovery (Kindle Locations 2336-2337).

The diet mentality lingers long,
making it seem that eating right
somehow is punishment.
But that's the lie disguised as truth.
Abstinence with gratitude may well be
the best tasting item on the menu,
it's eating right, drinking what you need,
the privilege of abstaining,
of a food plan you love.

Full of Self

God sends no one away empty except those who are full of themselves. ~ Dwight L. Moody

Look at that man, bloated by self-importance—
    full of himself but soul-empty.
But the person in right standing before God
    through loyal and steady believing
    is fully alive, really alive. (Habakkuk 2:4 The Message)

Come to me all who labor and are heavy laden.
Get rest. Learn from the source. Feel at leisure,
carrying a light load. But the narcissist, the
self-absorbed, those wrapped up in self
have all they want, seek nothing better,
decline to see the offer made and lose, stuck in their
addictions, their character defects, and
miss out on the good so freely offered.

Welcome Home

What was the big deal,
going to a meeting?
She knew what they did there
though not from having tried it.
Heck, she'd even read
the "Standard Meeting Format"
and knew how robotic,
how rote memory,
how repetitious it was.
But Sally wouldn't relent,
so she did. Maybe with dread -
well, certainly with dread.
Maybe with skepticism -
yeah, whole chunks of that.
Maybe with curiosity, a bit of interest -
to be honest more of those -
almost. With the dread.
But she'd go.
So she did. Nice people.
They seemed interested,å
didn't stare at her bulk,
at arms as big as her waist should be.
They read all that stuff,
like she'd read on the website,åç
but it didn't feel canned.
They read like they meant it.
And then they got to the end
of that long, long reading,
and the reader said,
"Welcome to Overeaters Anonymous."
And the whole group answered,

"Welcome home!"
And she knew. She just knew.
She'd found home.

Deep Waves

It’s the deep waves of life that teach us to be better swimmers.”
~ Karen Casey

In over my head. Swimming against the current.
Why should I fight the fight? I’m old, tired,
impaired, at least temporarily, but my body will never be younger.
Why keep trying? Why take the risk? Why dare?
Because I’m not content to sit in a recliner another
twenty-five years. I still have achievements awaiting my efforts,
knowledge to pass on, words to share.
I’ve lessons to learn and I’m ready to pass new mile markers,
so God, give me courage to dare the waves, to dare to try, to trust your guidance.

That Bicycling Fish

So I turned my mind to understand, to investigate
and to search out wisdom and the scheme of
things and to understand the stupidity of wickedness
and the madness of folly.

I find more bitter than death
the woman who is a snare,
whose heart is a trap
and whose hands are chains.
The man who pleases God will escape her,
but the sinner she will ensnare.

“Look,” says the Teacher,
“this is what I have discovered:
“Adding one thing to another to discover the scheme of things —
while I was still searching
but not finding —
I found one upright man among a thousand,
but not one upright woman among them all. T

his only have I found:
God made mankind upright,

but men have gone in search of many schemes.” ~ Ecclesiastes 7:24-29S

Grrr.
A woman needs a man
like a fish needs a bicycle.
Grrr.
Still...
A leader cannot be tethered to
an over-possessive or manipulative
partner.
There’s truth behind the idea
behind every leader there’s a good
spouse,
even if he’s a husband.

God, help me understand
I tend to reach the level of those around me.
Lead me to associate with great people
and to listen to an awesome God.

Imperfect and Inept

"It is when I am weak that I am strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10)
The only real perfection of which humans are capable is to include, absorb, forgive, and transform human imperfection. Humans are conduits and transformers much more than self-sufficient generators. Such is the character of a whole (and holy) human being. ~ Fr. Richard Rohr, OFM

Self-reliant. I have been, expect to be.
But it's a lie today. I dropped my purse in the elevator.
Twice, in rapid succession. I tried to stuff
about twelve pages back into their envelope, gave up,
and accepted help. As I worked to get money in my wallet
and that in the purse, the clerk said to take all the time
I needed. I forgot a committee meeting tonight,
instead worked on an important project, gave up, overwhelmed.
Miranda spoke Monday of the spirituality of imperfection.
I've got a wrap on that one!! I can participate in God's perfect mercy
no matter how worthless I feel! I can be comforted in the hand of
God. I'm not worthless even if I am imperfect and inept.
God, I offer myself to Thee, to build with me and to use me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self that I may better do Thy will. 
Take away my difficulties that victory over them may bear witness
to those I would help of Thy power, Thy love, ad Thy way of Life.

That's Life

based on random conversations...

I’ll have to go into my closet
and start over. When did closet
begin to mean anything but a tiny room?
Could you ever hear that sentence
thinking the space interpretation?
It kind of makes your day.
Neat. Was the source of "it" thanked?
Your judge said I should get a patent on it. How many people claim a judge?
It works a lot better than paper towels, they don’t stick on everything.
Why didn't I look and not just listen?
All right, see you later.
They were going to throw all that away.
Maybe it’s a cream cheese with powdered sugar in it.
Or they use butter.
Better get some gas in case
I have to go to Coleman tonight.
Better go now, there'll be rough weather.
The cows won't come until feeding time.
Life happens, in unexpected bursts.
It can overwhelm, amuse, educate,
sadden, challenge, haunt you,
But the odds are better if before the day starts
you ask for guidance, God's will,
and the sense to do the next right thing.

Social Media

The story of our lives
the grandeur, the despair,
the highs as lows for our friends
and occasionally foes,
Facebook holds them all.

Sharing with family
as close as can be,
with acquaintances,
with folks who know someone
who knows us, or sometimes
total strangers.

It's all well and good
but when the most important thing
in your life requires anonymity
at all public levels,
it puts a powerful damper
on telling what matters most!

Stuck in the Mud

When life pulls you down,
obscures your path,
bogs your footfalls,
adds ruts to potholes,
captures you in its tendrils...
it's easy to declare yourself
powerless over your nemesis,
that managing your life
is a pipe dream, that
any power that might once have been
has become flimsy, meager,
dubious...Yet dire as it seems, it's mere illusion,
a sense of desperation adequate
to cause surrender, to turn to some greater
Power to steer you out, to rescue.
For that Power exists, ready, at hand.
You need only grasp it, ask for it.
mimic it as you see it in others
for soon, very soon, it to become vibrant in you,
to free you from the muck, to begin your better,
freer, suddenly meaningful
next great adventure.

“Roots,” by Frida Kahlo

 

 

 

 

So You Say

 

You always hurt the one your love they say
but will you love me tomorrow, Love? Can you
pledge your troth and hold the course today,
tomorrow, day by day, and follow through?

 

You cannot buy my love, you know. Amend
means change, not doing what you've always done.
To purchase things, to spend the dough, won't send
the message, heal the hurt, make done undone.

 

To live amends, to stay the course can prove
you've changed, can show sincerity is real
and build the trust that hate and fear removed.
But ancient hurts take time to fully heal.This ninth step stuff is well and good, as long
as honesty prevails and love grows strong.

 

 

 

Family of Choice

"I am the black sheep of the family. I came to Alcholics Anonymous and found the rest of the herd." ~ Source

Terminally different or unique.
Those who don't fit in.
Unlike, deviating, night and day,
poles apart, unique, singular,
particular, rare, uncommon.
I'm guessing most people
occasionally feel like square
pegs in round holes but not
terminally different or unique.
But we do...or at least I do.
And I've found my home, my people,
those with whom I fit. And we're a tribe,
a family, my people. I've come home!

 

Apart

Sit in the sunshine
thirty minutes a day.
Doing what? Computer work?
Games? Catching up?
Writing tomorrow's poem?
Sit in the sunshine
thirty minutes a day.
I can do all that
but watching the birds
drinking from the dog dish,
considering the clouds
floating, morphing,
being. Listening
so I might hear
what I've asked,
that a power, a god,
might show me
who I am, what I need,
what is the next right thing.

Because

This may be a fine program
but it's not going to work for me,
I know since I've tried everything,
most of them multiple times...
like Weight Watchers, Adkins diet,
those candies, do you remember,
Aids before that meant something else,
counting calories, carbs, protein,
grapefruits, and lots and lots of them,
exercise, yoga, walking five miles a day,
and hypnosis, ear staples, therapy,
public dares, incentives, charts...
even giving myself shots in the stomach
daily, not approved for weight loss,
just for diabetes which I don't have,
but they might have worked,
and didn't any more than the carb blockers,
the appetite suppressants, even amphetamines,
you name it I tried it, and it didn't work,

so this one won't either, even though you swear
it worked for you, even if you tell my story
like you sneaked a peek in my mind,
even if you seem different from any other group,
but it won't work for me, and I tell you this
to say I'll take your dare and try it just to prove to you
it won't work for me.

Time Out

Enough. I've worked, struggled,
tried to perfect, come close,
lacking some. But that's it.
Anything more is smearing the paint,
too much salt, spoiling the brew.
I'll stop now. It would be good 
to meditate, to exercise, to pamper me.
But that's too strenuous, too much work.
I'll vege out, play mindless games,
stare at the sky, frolic with the dog.
Time out. It heals the soul, the body, the mind.

None of My Business

 

You tell me I've lied,
You throw words at me
attempting to smother me,
to hit your mark, to bother me
and start an argument.
Or so you say.
I am not judging your words
or the intentions behind them,
merely recounting.
It appears you long for my ire,
you revel in ideas of my dissolving
into accusations, of causing a fight.
And I can see your frustration
when I listen, accept, consider.
If you understood the truth
that what you think of me
is none of my business,
perhaps it would be easier
to see that what you say
colors you and when I accept no hues
it leaves me untouched.

 

Pushing Right Back

In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger — something better, pushing right back.” – Albert Camus

Winter comes sometimes in smoldering, oppressively hot days.
Forty days ago my world crumpled around me. People would ask,
"Is this your first stroke" and my instinct was to scream
(which would have sounded like inaudible diatribe,) "Yeah but my last one, too.
Forget doing this again!!" But I have found strength within,
I can and will refuse to be the victim here.
There is, in me, a strength never tested,
something making me  stronger, giving me a platform
to prove strength within, to push right back!

Three Kinds of Better

We come for the weight loss,
for recovery of the body.
That's all we've sought
our whole lives through,
convinced once the body's right
everything else falls in place.
We find when we come
they speak of other recovery...
of the mind. That we've believed
we were hopeless, helpless,
unworthy of love, of good, of peace.
But we hear stories of others
who found a way out,

whose minds were healed,
who quit thinking those thoughts,
began to accept that we might
possibly, perhaps, be worthy
of respect, of love, of something real.
And finally we find our spirit healing,
our peace becoming something
we not only have but can share,
our souls calm, filled with joy.
And, by the time we actually find
the body recovered as we came for,
our spirits and minds have been there first,
welcoming the rest of us home.

You Know Them

A Scot can look at a stranger's clothing
and know the surname of the wearer
and perhaps which branch of the clan,
a more exact analysis of the ancestry
of the wearer.

 

My son gave his father a sweatshirt
Can you see the difference in the burnt orange

identifying the University of Texas
and that of the University of Tennessee,
exactly described in computerese as #FAA13B
Is #FAA13B so unique from #F77F00?

 

Have you met a stranger, spent some time,
and recognized recovery? The catch phrases,
the attitude, the countenance, the joy...
we can't be anonymous among us
when the recovery is written on our souls!

A Thousand Steps

Distance looms, impossible chasms,
between where we are
and where we want to be.
Between who we are
and who we want to be.

It's too far, I'll never reach it.
I might as well stay, save, sound,

albeit miserable, longing to go there.

But I can't. It's too far.
But I can take one step.
Then another. And finally,
one step at a time,
I reach the impossible place.

A Channel of Peace

“Lord, make me a channel of thy peace — that where

there is hatred, I may bring love,,,.”~ St. Fransis, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Alcoholic  Anonymous, page 99

How can i channel God's peace?
Channel as a verb: to form, cut, or wear a channel in
to make a groove in , to convey or direct into or through a channel

but "a" channel says noun, not verb.
A noun would bethe deeper part of a river, harbor, or strait
but then again there's a middle ground. a way, course, or direction of thought or action
or  a band of frequencies of sufficient width for a single radio or television communication.
And there's a related word, channeler: a person who conveys thoughts or energy
from a source believed to be outside the person's body or conscious mind;
specifically :  one who speaks for nonphysical beings or spirits.
can I be that kind of channel? A phrophet means a person who speaks for God.
Like  when Isaiah was called. Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying,
"Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"

Lord, make me a channel of thy peace — that where

there is hatred, I may bring love.

We Think Not

Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us—sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them. ~ The Big Book and A Study Guide of the 12 Steps (Kindle Locations 1509-1510). AlExtravagant: lacking restraint in spending money or using resources.

"it was rather extravagant to buy both" spendthrift, profligate,
improvident, wasteful, prodigal, lavish...valuable, precious

 exceeding what is reasonable or appropriate; absurd.

"extravagant claims for its effectiveness"
So, why don't we think these promises extravagant?
Aren't they these things precious? Yes, they're precious.
But they're  also becoming commonplace in our daily lives,
a treasure we live with.    They are being fulfilled among us—
sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize
if we work for them!

Situations Which Used to Baffle Us

Our whole attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves. ~ The Big Book and A Study Guide of the 12 Steps

Renovation...of people!
like changing carpet, furniture,
light fixtures, paint, drapery,
Wipe out dominant characteristics,
the nature of the thing.
Under new management,
with new identities,
promises come true!

Our Fellows

That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. ~ The Big Book and A Study Guide of the 12 Steps (Kindle Locations 1505-1506).

MacKay, et al in When Anger Hurtsmake the point that in a disagreement
each person is not trying to flaunt the needs
of the other but rather yo get his or her needs met.
The solution is a give and take, so multiple
needs are addressed. That's what happens, working the Steps.
We realize our own needs fired our resentments
and find ways to accept our fellows as equals.
It is then self-pity becomes unnecessary
and we begin to perceive the whole picture and
see needs in others, What a promise when
we accept it and perceive the joy it creates!

It's the AA Big Book!

No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear. ~ The Big Book and A Study Guide of the 12 Steps (Kindle Locations 1504-1505).

I grin when O.A. people read the promises,
Could "The Scales" be anything but the old nemesis?
Of course. Alcoholics understand it as that obscure definition
the dictionary eventually reaches:   "a graduated series or scheme
of rank or order."With that meaning down the scale is not 
a result to be craved, the ultimate goal.
But then "no matter how far down the scale we go
doesn't matter. Whether we feel good about our position or not,
it is true our stories are perhaps our dearest treasure, for
they are our way of sharing the good parts, of showing from any starting line
we can reap the promises. We're no longer useless
but can / have found true happiness.
through working the first nine Steps!

If... Then

If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness. ~ The Big Book and A Study Guide of the 12 Steps (Kindle Locations 1502-1503).

Steps One through Nine are done.
We've admitted we were powerless,
had unmaneageable lives, came to believe a
Higher Power might restore us to sanity,
made a decision to turn our will and lives
over to thatPower, made a fearless and searching
morol inventory of ourselves, admitted to ourselves,
God and another human the exact nature of our wrongs,
became completely ready for God to remove our character defects,
humbly asked Him to remove them, listed people to whon
we owed amends, made them when we could,
and these are the action steps , leaving the three we
continue for life. and we mind this ptomise...the list of promises
on pages 83-84. Before we're halfway there? Four abd a half steps done?
ptobably nobody knows a definitive answer.
But people who have tried on these nine find some...most?
of the promosesare coming true.  Certainly we're amazed.
Life utself finally makes sense And that yields new freedom, amazing freedom
and a new happiness ;ike we couldn't imagine before!.

How Welcome, Really?

A room in the basement,
easy access except the elevator
hasn't worked for years.
Stairs down to the meeting,
up to go forth. How pleasant
for people whose obesity,
diabetes and other complications
make it unaccessible.
Colorful non-rectangular frames
filled with artwork by students
now long-since parents.
Each week get chairs out,
meet and put them back.
But don't sit in that corner.
The airflow drowns out sounds.
Posters occasionally,
not mimes...those hadn't been named.
But like that. Like relics
of performances, long since left
in teenage sanctums. Like ads
in magazines extorting benefits
of congregational life.
A room so familiar,
the value of the gathering so great,
it really didn't seem overpriced
at five bucks a month.

 

 

The Senior Partner

That enduring “something” confirms your greatness, your absolute connection to the infinite. There’s a sense of being permanently aligned with a sort of senior partner that is greatness itself. ~ Wayne Dyer. Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao (p. 118).

Perhaps it's necessary for us to "come to understand"
the Power greater than ourselves, but that need could not be less
mutual. The Power knew us intimately before our birth.
With an innate understanding of the interconnectedness
and our individual role in time and matter, the senior partner
guides our path, crafts our talents, our nature, the strengths and weaknesses
we bring to the mix, reaching out when the moment arises,
and waiting for our words, your will be done.

Welcome Home

What was the big deal,
going to a meeting?
She knew what they did there
though not from having tried it.
Heck, she'd even read
the "Standard Meeting Format"
and knew how robotic,
how rote memory,
how repetitious it was.
But Sally wouldn't relent,
so she humored her. Maybe with dread —
well, certainly with dread.
Maybe with skepticism —
yeah, whole chunks of that.
Maybe with curiosity, a bit of interest —
to be honest more of those —
almost. With the dread.
But she'd go.
So she did. Nice people.
They seemed interested,
didn't stare at her bulk,
at arms as big as her waist should be.
They read all that stuff,
like she'd read on the website,
but it didn't feel canned.
They read like they meant it.
And then they got to the end
of that long, long reading,
and the reader said,
"Welcome to Overeaters Anonymous."
And the whole group answered,

"Welcome home!"
And she knew. She just knew.
She'd found home.

Last House in the Block

Been there, done that.
Tried every diet that came along,
every exercise regimen...
at least for a day, sometimes less.
Resolves, weigh-and-pay organizations,
faith-based plans, ear pins to twist,
hypnotism, special occasions
as incentives, dream trips
as promised rewards...but
nothing
worked.
Then I found OA and have no need ever
to try anything else.