For You

1. Why do you write haiku?
For you.
I can remember Zen Master Seung Sahn answering the question "Why do you sit?" with those two words. I gave his response an unspoken one word – "jerk." It took me decades to grasp his meaning.
Originally, I wrote haiku as poetic reminders of "epiphanies" for me. As I kept studying haiku, I realised the finest haiku re-created the "epiphanies" in the reader.
So, to answer your question again:
For you. ~ Hortensia Anderson

For you I compose
recovery poems each day
drawing you to this site

Truth be told of course
they're gifted to Eagle Wings
hopefully selling

Evening and dawn
I search for bits of wisdom
transformed to verse

Dawn to dark I ponder
snatching phrases, noting learning
sound intelligence

Recovery grows
pulling me upward deeper
expanding spirit

Gaining quiet peace
living promises fulfilled
ebulliently

To keep recovery
pass it on serenity shared
daily poems – for you

Substance of Things Hoped For

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. ~ Hebrews 11:1 (KJV)

My life is trash, a rubbish heap of broken promises,
devoid of hope, worthless shards of possibility.
But I sit in a meeting, hear stories like mine,
see lives worth living, sense hope from hopelessness.
Then I come back just because I sense a kinship,
feel accepted. And little by slow hope nudges in.
The stories reveal pattern, assume form, substance.
Could it be, might it happen that mine could be one?
And incrementally I come to believe some power
evident in these rooms might find buried in me
a life worth living.

Rocking

...rocking my inner child, swaying from side to side. ~ Sharon D.

I'm the child in the bassinet, content,
talking to the large doll peeking over.
The chubby child who ran with the boy called,
"Red Rover, Red Rover, let Fat Domino come over"
and failed to break the line, blinded by tears.
The little girl who hated dolls, asked for firetrucks.
The new kid in town, fourth grade, when everybody
knew everybody else and I couldn't remember names.
But I'm also Mother and Grandmom.
I know how to comfort the child
give hugs she'd like to have gotten way back when
and we can comfort each other, we two.

 

Honestly

Honesty: The complete absence of the intent to deceive. (Definition heard in rooms of recovery)

The truth, the whole truth,
nothing but the truth? Sure.
I swear.
Nothing I say will not be true.
Whole? Have you Googled any subject?
It's an impossible standard,
I'll have to pick and choose.
Nothing but truth? You bet.
It's not my fault if I say my truth
in words you'll hear your way,
if I use my facility with phrasing
and command of language
to mislead your comprehension.
But no, it's a talent I developed,
practiced, perfected for years.
But now, no. I'll communicate
clearly, unambiguously.
I'd rather please you,
save myself from your disapproval
but I won't. What you think of me
is none of my business,
but what I know of what I've done
is.

 

Can't Accept

I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying. ~ Michael Jordan

When you walk into the rooms of recovery
they talk about simple, admit it's not easy,
say it's "twelve simple steps" then begin such as
"searching and fearless moral inventory,"
ego-deflation in depth, lose yourself to find yourself,
just do the next right thing, surrender.
I'll never get it, can't hope to understand it.
I just want to quit, to run away, to hide.
But I've been there, done that, know the pain.
Here I look around, see folks with hope,
with peace. I can't imagine getting this
but I guess I'll stick around to see.
I can't accept not giving it a try. 

 

Resolute

I resolve to make no resolution,

to avoid disgrace of failure

when the year's a few weeks old.

Lose weight, keep a clean house,

gossip less, enjoy more — oh, yes,

I yearn for these. Five hundred miles run

a few at at time; piles of worthy books

made mine, internalized; to be a person I admire

when ads on billboards again entreat

a list of goals — buy here, use this...

Yes, I'll tackle these, my heart's desire,

but just for now, only today,

repeated day by day

as calendar pages expire.

Hurt People Hurt People

Domineering, authoritative, take charge folk they are
but mean, spiteful, vindictive as well.
You're seldom near them without suffering hurt,
more often psychic or emotional then physical.
Lying – suffering – on the virtual gurney
it's hard to sense weakness in the bully.
Truth be told, though, her hurt's deeper, more devastating
than yours. She'd mock you, pillory you with invective,
to prevent your sensing what she can't accept.
She's a wounded animal, life-lacerated,
reverting to survival skills honed, polished,
to disguise her scars, to draw first blood
so you'll never grasp

hurt people hurt people. 

Mostly Sunny

Living on the edge of the desert
decades on end, I remember a sojourn
in Tennessee where it seemed to rain daily.
Lovely! Delightful! A thing to be savored.
Few there shared my glee.
Days of baking sun, centennial temperature,
oppressive heat... Waiting for heat-induced clouds
to pour blessed cooling, welcome rain.
When will we learn to be content whatsoever?
How do we recognize commonplace blessings,
the joys of ordinary? How do we make gratitude
habitual?

Noah's Dove

There I'd have nowhere comfortable to put my feet — like the dove on Noah's ark. ~ Josh C
Forty days later Noah opened a window to send out a raven, but it kept flying around until the water had dried up. Noah wanted to find out if the water had gone down, and he sent out a dove. Deep water was still everywhere, and the dove could not find a place to land. So it flew back to the boat. Noah held out his hand and helped it back in. ~ Genesis 8:6-9 (CEV)

Waking up to a new world,
one bearing no apparent resemblance
to the one I've known, wandering,
without landmarks, uncharted.
A new nightmare of an old reality.
Finding a floating box of a boat,
incongruous and awkward,
one where nobody would choose to go
but the only option in a drowning world,
finding there the hand of friendship,
acceptance, understanding
welcoming me home.

Dove Arc Icon by Maria Kirby

 

Maximum Service

 At the moment we are trying to put our lives in order. But this is not an end in itself. Our real purpose is to fit ourselves to be of maximum service to God and the people about us. (Alcoholics Anonymous, page 77)

It's not about me. Even my recovery —
it's not about me. What can I do to serve?
How can I help you, God?
What would you have me be?
My brothers and sisters, family of choice,
I offer my hand, my heart, my words, my past.
My family of birth and affiliation, my life is yours
not to change, not to pull me from program,
but to be of maximum service, for hope to spring
from change, from growth.
My brothers and sisters I've not yet met,
I serve by working the program,
keeping meetings going, holding out the promises
with results to speak of potential peace
here for the taking. For each of you,
it's all about you until you can find
it's not about you. 

The Parking Spot

I know it's not a big deal,
should be minor frustration.
You needed a space, it was empty
though marked for my apartment.
You took my space. There were others,
I parked closer to my door.
But it's two nights in a row
you've used my spot. It's no big deal.
But you don't know the history,
how I owned half of a garage
and parked outside, how I tried
from time to time to claim my right
and, rebuffed, gave up but never let go
the hurt. I own the right to a covered spot
and my car's under starry sky.
Childishly I taped a note, beyond need
to have you see. No, taped all four sides,
you'll pause, peeved. Remember, though,
it's no big deal
even when it feels immense. 

Pass the Crap or Past the Crap

Bound by blood and history
the family gathers, a festive day,
calendar-dictated reunion time.
Sibling rivalries decades old
make one-upsmanship
an octogenarian pastime,
while simple comments, innocent,
press buttons to trigger fireworks.
Decision time, and one must lead
to end the senseless charade.
What will you do as you sit to dine?
Do you pass the crap with platters
or at long last move past the crap?

 

Take This Cup

Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.” ~ Mattbew 26:39 (NIV)

Thanks, but I'd rather not.
God, you know I told you this morning,
"Your will, not mine be done;"
but couldn't we discuss this first?
This plan of yours – it's just not me...
It's not the next right thing, I'm pretty sure.
I'd feel so out there, so visible,
so exposed. I need to stand behind lines,
to support the brave, the public folk.
My fears shriek at the very thought,
and can't you feel my trembling knees?
So, let's scale this one back, if you please.
What do you mean, you don't please?
You can't make me, can't insist.
"...offer myself to Thee, to build with me,
to do with me as Thou wilt..."
I know, but this? How could you?
How could I? With you? For real.
Okay, I guess, but truth be told,
I'd rather not.

Choices

Sometimes choices are easy,
natural, the only real option
or at least kind of harmless,
no adverse consequences,
a matter of preference.
Sometimes choices are awful
where "none of the above"
resonates. An issue of weighing,
comparing. Sometimes, though,
it's not really a decision between equals,
sames, appropriate picks.
I well know the pull to take the old
tried-and-true, the comfortable way
but understand sanity, recovery, serenity
mandates another path.

Volume Control

Constant auditory input all around,
we selectively let in some, ignore the rest,
mute some, open all the stops for few.

The committee, though, inside my head...
it's not so easy to tune it, choose to hear,
opt out. Shame on you! What's he thinking?
Do I look stupid to them all? The other voices,
though, seem to grow stronger, to blare over
the embarrassment, the fear, the anger.
What she thinks is none of my business.
Easy does it, one Step at a time.
Not my will but Yours.And over time, the new guy crescendoes,
singing harmony with program thoughts.
Are these extravagant promises? We think not. 
They are being fulfilled among us — 
sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. 
They will always materialize if we work for them.

quotation from  Alcoholics Anonymous, page 84.

Unloved

I loathe myself, my life.
I want to die, just lie here and cease.
How can anyone feel anything for me but hate,
pity, disgust?

Hope hovers, waiting for surrender,
wanting to be found.

Nothing Tastes as Good

Nothing tastes as good as abstinence feels. (Program saying)

Food galore, and great stuff —
times past I would have gorged all day.
Such a special day, surrounded by family,
friends, good folk. Stress, feelings,
turmoil within, about. Alcohol,
cake, chips, bountiful food,
but I ate my food plan, perhaps erring
by too little food, portions below goals.
Still, without the calories, minus guilt,
buoyed by a state of well-being,
a benevolent Power in charge,
the day ranks among the best, memorable
and meaningful, abstinently. 

Considering Yoda

"Do, or do not. There is no try."
Was Yoda a Twelve-Stepper?
He was always aware of the Power,
the Force, greater than he.
Anonymity initiated his relationship
with Luke, though afterwards
he revealed himself, shared his strength.
He certainly had cause to resent
Darth Vader, formerly known
as Anakin, but he understood;
he did not trust him, did not give him power
over Yoda. Like Obi-Wan Yoda knew
Vader could not defeat him, could not win.
He knew the value of becoming centered,
of melding with the Force, of yielding,
of serving. With 900 years of recovery
Yoda continued sponsoring, sharing strength
aware some he sponsored relapsed,
knowing the bounteous promises for those
who walked the course, trusted the Force.
He understood fear, saw it in Anakin then Luke,
and led them to release their fear,
to learn who the Force would have them be.

Basics Staying Power

If I never leave the basics,
I never have to get them back.
But where are they,
what are they?
Basics are fundamentals,
the principles...
Admitting powerlessness,
I look inward honestly —
honesty is a principle.
What could be more basic than hope
at least for the hopeless like me, insane,
doing the same thing time after time,
expecting this time...
Daring different from a greater power,
faith is a decision.
Courage to face facts,
integrity to admit them,
willingness for change to come
from beyond my control,
humility to let it happen —
pretty dramatic, but still basic...
Cleaning up debris of my past
comes from self-discipline
and love, and holding all together,
preventing unraveling, happens
through perseverance, spiritual awarenessand service.  But how?
Twelve principles, basic every one,
yet so nebulous, so ideal.
I'm too weak, I can't do it.
But of course, that honesty starts me
down the path. I'll walk,
Step by Step, grabbing hold of basics
as often as needed, holding on to each.
I certainly don't want to live
without them.

REAL!

This program is real, the steps are real and finally I am real. ~ Brittany

Like the velveteen rabbit or Pinocchio
real finally comes, the life-lottery won.
I was an android mimicking life,
acting as if, playing the role,
always expecting the discovery debacle.
Then love happened, honesty ascended,
truth triumphed until suddenly,
beyond belief, real became real.

Vulnerable

When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability... To be alive is to be vulnerable. ~ Madeleine L'Engle

Wounded, vulnerable, exposed.
Childhood takes the defenseless
and far too often inflicts injury,
sometimes palpable, more often psychic.
We grown children resolve to leave behind
that vulnerability, to be impervious
staving off weakness.
Armored, we lurch through life.
offended when the shield fails to block
every onslaught.
Sometimes, though, intuitively or through mishap,
we learn the blows accepted, expected,
damage less, can even enhance, bringing gifts
we might have missed. Strengthened,
wise ones learn risk makes life whole, worthwhile,
that moving through storms reveals rainbows.

The Earthly Good of X

Or, you might possibly persuade yourself to believe in some creative force, or algebraic “X,” but what earthly good would an “X” be in solving such a problem as you face? ~  Alcoholics Anonymous, Kindle Locations 3856-3858

It's a Step in the right direction,
beginning to believe some greater Power might
and becoming willing to step aside, to allow
this newfound Power to play a round
in life's game. But if that Power
is recognized not for merit or power
but because so many others have,
a willingness to do whatever it takes
to feel some sanity...
but if the Power is an abstract X,
a being you're willing to be willing
to accept,  then what about when
the excrement hits the fan,
what about those times you've always hidden,
buried in addictions and placebos?
Then you're in for a surprise
when that abstract X you feel you made up
zaps into a super-sized X-man stepping out
of media and into life – your life! —
and confounding your lingering
incredulity.

Loneliness

Loneliness is a drug, a narcotic; it grows through veins, through nerves and muscles; it assumes some right of possession over your body and mind; it feeds itself, and creates its ownn requirement. Loneliness and solitude are walls. ~ R. J. Ellory, A Quiet Belief in Angels

Just get away from it all
leads to alone, away from friends,
morphs into solitude, bides with solo,
yields isolation then single,
alone to lonely until...
anything else feels strange,
people drift away, perhaps sad
at friendship lost.
Loneliness becomes normal,
branding all else strange, bizarre,
until somehow a friend,
long known or yet a stranger,
breaks down the walls
showing lonely
as charlatan,

isolation as peculiar. 

To Stand Prosperity

It seemed quite impossible however for me to stand prosperity so I would drink myself out of one situation, get myself together a bit, develop another, and then repeat the performance. ~ Alcoholics Anonymous: the "Big Book" (Kindle Locations 3805-3807)

Martyrdom, suffering, the victim role
feels right, deserved.
I know better, want better,
ask for better
but when he walks me to my car
I say it's not necessary.
And it's not, at least not
necessarily necessary...
but proper, the manners
we were raised with.
Or did something in childhood
make me uncomfortable
with manners?
He deserves a woman who deserves
to be walked to the car.
God deserves a creation
who prospers
and enjoys prosperity.

Our Protestations

What­ ever our protestations, are not most of us concerned with ourselves, our resentments, or our self-pity? (Alcoholics Anonymous, pp. 62)

A miscommunication with a teammate,
perhaps accidentally using his ID
just a couple of times, just accessing an account —
not even a thousand bucks, what could be wrong?
Sure, maybe a mistake, should have handled better...
a different perspective. But you've got to allow leeway,
talent like this is rare, special, sought after.
There is some inherent right if you're that special
to take what you want, to be the exception to the rule.
You have to understand the circumstances...

If God has been generous with you, 
he will expect you to serve him well. 
But if he has been more than generous, 
he will expect you to serve him even better.

(Luke 12:48b, CEV)

Link to ReporterNews.com

   

Indiscriminately Imperfect

They appeared as some symbol of perfection in an indiscriminately imperfect world. ~ R. J. Ellory, A Quiet Belief in Angels

It's not directed at me,
not limited to what affects mine.
What appears an imperfect world
limited to one – c'est moi – is not.
Only when busy comparing my insides
to everybody else's outsides
could I mistake an egalitarian world
for one hopelessly biased,
the universe less one united against me.

The Blame Game

I know you feel responsible, Joseph, that is your nature, but responsibility and blame are not the same thing. ~ R. J. Ellory, A Quiet Belief in Angels

Blame, shame, guilt, fault —
to claim it, own it, comes naturally,
maybe not to normal folk,
but who's normal?
But why? Because I deserve it,
at least that's what the committee —
the one in my head —
drums into my psyche.
And do you believe what you're told?Only the bad, the negative, the denigrating.
Rather selective, isn't that? 
You hear praise, commendation too.I don't believe that! It embarrasses me,
singles me out. And blame does not?No. Blame stays in my head.
Others don't see the blame, the shame.
Invisible, ephemeral, imaginary?
I wouldn't say that. But it's true, you know?
You know.I know.

Use Me

Spirit of the living God, fall afresh on me;
Spirit of the living God, fall afresh on me.
Melt me, mold me, fill me, use me.
Spirit of the living God, fall afresh on me. (David Iverson)

Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me,
cascade on me, coat me.
Melt my ramparts, dissolve my walls,
evaporate my barricades.
Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me,
soften the crust, blend me.
Whittle off the dross, refine the ore ,
spin me to shape on your wheel.
Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me,
make me a cistern filled with grace.
Replenish my emptiness, brimful,
overflowing with your love.
Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me,
make me an instrument of your peace.
Let me be tool or material, esteemed or low
made priceless in your design,
Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me,
melt me, mold me, fill me, use me.
Come, Spirit, come, rain down on me.

Hardening of the Categories

“There is no graver threat to the process of discovery than that dread disease, ‘hardening of the categories.’” ~ Bob Miller

Just push back from the table,
use a little willpower.
If you cared about your family
you'd stop drinking.
You could learn to read
if you set your mind to it, you're not stupid.
He's a narcissist, he'll never learn
to care about anybody but himself.
She's hopeless, might as well be locked up;
don't waste your resources there.
Categories.
What of the folks who are different?
What might happen if the categories
were scratched and hope happened?

No Matter the Cost

Costs may be obvious,
probable or unlikely
yet acting without indecision
without what-ifs
without yielding to fear
following the greater good —
no matter the cost —
may bring tragedy or honor
glory or obscurity.
But a life lived for a great purpose,
a life lost serving a great cause
is worth the living
no matter the cost.

Little by Slow

I stepped on the cactus when? Two, three years ago?
I backed over it, my foot covering the whole plant
without even feeling it there. A weed to begin with,
tiny, insignificant, only of value for tenacity in springing up
it lay crushed, ruined.
But it stood up again, clung to its tiny footprint in gravel,
and fought. I saw it today, mid-calf to me, holding its own.
Little by slow it recovered, past what could be imagined
as a diminutive replica of a plant. Little by slow it claimed ground
saying, "This is my spot, where I belong. It is my home
where little by slow I am becoming something worthy, beautiful,
at home and at peace, serene, ready to thrive."

How Screwy...

... the knowledge I now have, it is hard for me to recall how screwy the whole thing sounded—the blind leading the blind, a union of drunks, all banded together in some kind of a spiritual belief! (Alcoholics Anonymous, Kindle Locations 3845-3847)

Decades earlier I walked into the rooms
one time, a single meeting.
I couldn't leave fast enough,
had no use for the childish, silly folk,
chanting gibberish, not an intelligent word
I heard. Sometimes I wonder why
I couldn't hear the hope, the path,
the recovery in the room —
what years of peace and joy I missed
when I ignored the circled roomful
holding hands emphasizing each word
of the incantation Keep coming back.
It works if you work it. 

Prisoner of Pride

Angry men are blind and foolish, for reason at such a time takes flight and, in her absence, wrath plunders all the riches of the intellect while the judgment remains the prisoner of its own pride. ~ Pietro Aretino (For Today, Kindle Locations 1418-1420)

Blind, foolish..."mad as Hell...
not going to take it anymore!"
Reason AWOL, sayonara, ta-ta.
Anger wins, unparalleled, supreme.
So there. I refuse to hide it, deny it,
quell it one twit. You tell me own my feelings,
don't bury them, let them out.
Now you're talking sense!
See what others have done, how they treat me,
how they trample on my needs, my plans?
They did this to me – on purpose, too!
I'm the victim here. Why don't they apologize?
They could do that, should do much more!
I'll get even. Just wait while I think,
while I sort it out.
But something's amiss. My thoughts stick here,
in this morass. Let me out, set me free!
I want to lock them up, toss away the key.
So why does it feel like I'm confined,
in a cage? I can keep the anger.
But the pride demanding it ensnares me.

Rationalization

I've been benefited from a dictionary definition I found that reads: "Rationalization is giving a social acceptable reason for socially unacceptable behavior, and socially unacceptable behavior is a form of insanity." ~ Alcoholics Anonymous, page 550 (4th edition)

So, I don't like a "suggestion"
in the Big Book —
those suggestions like
"don't put a plastic sack
on your face and nap under water..."
the only suggestions there are.
I can explain why it's not applicable,
why it doesn't work, how this situation —
my situation – is different.
I'm clever with words, adroit at reasoning,
I can argue with the best of them.
And in the process preserve and solidify
my rampant insanity.
What's the suggestion? To jump?
Okay, I'm jumping. On my way up,
could you let me know
how high I should jump? 

Now I See It

They're old patterns,
well worn, automatic,
my triggers. I know them.
Well. Through long years
I've felt them in my gut,
denied vociferously when accused,
seen them in hindsight,
felt normal with them
until I couldn't stand them,
loathed them, hated them,
swore they'd never reappear.
But they do. Even now.
Maybe I should feel hopeless,
but far from it. Recovery works,
even here. Yes, they're still triggers,
but the explosion's a popgun,
not a howitzer and it rarely fires.
And now, I feel them in situ,
watch them happen,
and at day's end review the day,
see the proof without remorse,
and consider a course correction.

 

Shame Kicks In

Swimmingly, swimmingly life ticks by
as recovery happens, days brightening.
Goals unreachable through massive drives
suddenly, smoothly fall into place.
Self-confidence builds, fear diminishes,
as humility and released outcomes
yield happiness, fulfillment, success.
Yet sometimes old tapes, forgotten,
long-hidden but well-worn find their voice.
How could I be content?
I don’t deserve happiness! I’m not worthy.
Nothing has changed except everything
when shame kicks in, guilt grabs control.
Who gave it that power?
Who made it the trump card?
Oh. Did I do that to me?

Point of Privilege

That parable. The one about a master,
his giving three people talents,
some more, one just one.
Of course talents weren't talents
but substantial pieces of currency
like a fortune, each one.
And the issue was investing set against hiding,
protecting, saving. I get the idea,
use what is given you, be a good steward,
but the other point, the distribution.
One guy got five to the third guy's one.
How did he feel about it?
Not at the end, not when the master's choice
seemed validated, vindicated...
How did he feel at first, getting so much more?
Was he arrogant, proud to be trusted with more?
Did he figure it his just due when it wasn't,
when the master owed them nothing.
Or was he embarrassed by the riches,
feeling guilty to have been trusted with more?
How did he justify it if self-esteem issues roiled
in his head? Did he think about the guy with one
and others left out completely?
God, I'm the man it seems like,
where talent is currency or talent.
God help me, I'm the man.
What's the point of privilege?

Something Beautiful

And I want women to get in there with the men in humility before God, not primping before a mirror or chasing the latest fashions but doing something beautiful for God and becoming beautiful doing it. (1 Timothy 2:9-10 - The Message)

Skin deep, huh? Heck, no!
If it’s just the skin it’s attractive,
stunning, handsome, alluring —
but not beautiful. Beauty grows,
swells, sprouts comes inside-out.
Beauty is a radiant hope,
an excitement about live,
a peace, contentment, commitment
way down deep but so grand,
so pervasive it can’t be hidden,
will not be ignored. Perhaps that word —
beauty – won’t come to mind,
but the face beaming it
will draw the whole world in,
embraced and loved.

Inspiration

In thinking about our day we may face indecision. We may not be able to determine which course to take. Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision. We relax and take it easy. We don't struggle. We are often surprised how the right answers come after we have tried this for a while. (Alcoholics Anonymous, page 86)

"Inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision."
Odd grouping. Are they equals, parts of the whole?
Is it a sequence from inspiration to gut feeling to choice?
Or is the optimum first, followed by sequentially lessers?
Inspiration can be the intake of breath, but breath —
breathe and soul are, well, soul mates.
Pneumatic may mean operated by gas,
but pneuma is the creative force of a person – or Power.
Breathe on me, Breath of God, blend my soul with yours
so your thought becomes my own and the required action
surprises and delights.

Greatest Fear

Our deepest fear is we are powerful beyond measure. ~ "Our Greatest Fear" by Marianne Williamson

I can deal with mediocrity
or beam with respect
and even accept failure
though I fault someone else.
But what if, instead of life
beyond my wildest dreams,
I find myself really able to change the world
my world, your world, even just a bit?
What if what I do – what I did – really mattered?
As long as things remain within a range of foreseeable,
okay, no big deal. I reason then I turned my life,
my will over to that big a power.
But what if I find out my god, as I understand,
as I defined and crafted, what if
what I know is too small,
understated, incomplete?
What if I made up an inadequate god?
Who do I blame if God failed to fail?

Words that Seal

"Words that seal us forever,"
she said then just moved right on,
completing a thought while I lingered.
Promises, vows, solemn oaths,
the superglue of life  —
sometimes they're lies,
occasionally boasts,
just braggadocia intended in jest —
but a source of admiration
from one we would wow or woo.
But once words  gain eternal life....
How can I come by discernment
to grasp the nature of my binding words
and courage sever bonds unwisely made?

My Tribe

I found my tribe, the social architecture that fulfills my every need for camaraderie and conviviality. ~ Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, page 333

An ugly duckling, I wandered alone
among others, different, strange
when they were all I'd known.
Certain of nothing, convinced something
could be done if only I knew what or how
I cowered, hiding, or brazenly took charge
but never belonged.
Chance brought me together with another,
an other like me. How did I know?
I don't know. I needed no rationale,
had no cause to act shy or bold.
I just knew all was well. I was home.

Too Secure

He that is too secure is not safe. ~ Thomas Fuller

Made in the shade.
I've got this down,
understand the program,
have worked the steps.
Let me tell you all the secrets,
teach you the shortcuts.
That first thing in the morning
and as you go to bed each night?
Don't get too hung up on that —
after all, you chose your higher power
and know what it takes for you two.
And meetings? After a while
you've heard it all, same story
seventy-second verse.
It's all the truth, told to me by Zoe and Ysa.
You never met them? Well Zoe —
she relapsed, died in the addiction.
And Ysa, she's around.
Come to think of it,
she's pretty much a ball.
or a blimp. Maybe
they were wrong...